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Just after Thanksgiving, my mother called me, because she was in some sort of pain and asked me to go to her house for two days. All right, I was fine with that. Then it turned into, staying for 2 weeks. Not cool with that really. I needed to get home, sign up for classes and find a job. Well, now she has to have surgery to remove her gall bladder. So, I was at her house for another week after my dads, and I have to go back there in a week. I am at home now, but not for long! I have to stay there until at least Christmas Eve, because I told her that I was not staying until new years. Just not gonna happen.

I don't mind going there to help out, but they were kinda jerks about it and when I got angry about it they kinda... went kinda for a low blow.

My brother has disabilities, so he can't take care of himself, and that is what I was there/will be there for. I don't mind at all because I love him and would do anything for him. When I complained that I needed to get home to find a job and get stuff started for school, they were saying "You don't want to leave your little brother like that do you?" Like really? You have to sink that low? I got annoyed by it and definitly set some rules. Like, when my mother found out the date of her surgery, she had to ask me to come help, not tell me I have to go help. That I'm there to take care of my brother, I've been doing it for 10 years, I know how to, you spoil him too much, don't tell me how to do it, I've got it. Things are gonna go different when I'm there. My mom kisses my brothers ass basically. He gets everything he wants, even if it is completely ridiculous. Shit he doesn't need.

oh, yes and my father. They all wanted to go see New Moon Sunday night, but because my brother couldn't sit through a movie without causing some kind of ruckus, they couldn't. There were many things we thought of, but got thrown off by change of events with my mom. So then my dad gets it in his head that I will babysit for them. DOESN'T ASK ME, JUST GOES AROUND THE WHOLE HOUSE TELLING EVERYONE ELSE THAT I WILL.

So, finally gets to me and I've heard all of the shit he was saying, so I don't even wait for him to say anything I just say "So are you going to ask me if I will babysit? I think it would be a good idea before assumeing I would, and then go around and tell everyone I would first." He says "I was just about to ask you!" "Well, that's still after you told everyone else that I would!" "Well will you?" "Yea, but that's not the damn point!"

He just didn't understand that. Both of my parents don't get that I'm not a kid anymore and I don't have to do everything they tell me. I'm an adult that doesn't even live with either of them and can make decisions myself.

ugh