Well I am almost 30 years old and have yet to be in serious relationship. I am also  a virgin. Not proud, but not ashamed either. I have been thinking about this since virginity is now like sort of popular thanks to Tim Tebow and new shows like Virgin Diaries. I at least now don't feel totally weird.I am still feeling really lonely relationship wise. I could have been in a serious relationship a couple of years ago, but I was just not  feeling it.There is someone else on my mind. I remember going after her years ago and I thought I had struck out. I have been friends with her on Facebook and I just had to message her recently. She messaged me for awhile, but that stopped. I want to say something to her, but I don't know what to say. I definately don't want to creep her out. I don't know who to ask for help or advice . My folks taught me basically to forget about relationships and focus on your career.  I am also sort of afraid to ask my friends, because I feel like they kind of judge me about still being a virgin and lack of relationship experience. I think I have a lot going for myself. I plan on working in healthcare when finish my bachelor's degree and I have been investing in the stock market since I was 21. I have been told that I look like a young Elvis, so hopefully that is considered good looking? My problem is I sort have lived a sheltered life and it shows in my love life/relationships. Any advice is welcome. Please share your thoughts.