I hate that my husband works in the oilfield he's never home iwe have a 3 yr old son and im 5.months pregnant and we get to see him only one week out if a month he works 2 Weeks on 1 week off so that equals up to about 3 months out of the yr i hate living like this its not fair to my son just wants his daddy in his life its not fair to my unborn sonwho is, going to need his daddy and im a lonley and tired of living like this i married my husband so i could live my kife and raise a family with him i feel this way but then i also feel bsd cause i know he's out working his ass off to support his family i don't want to be selfish but some times it really hard to the point i am don't think i can do it any more me and my son miss him more thsn anything i want him to find adiffrent job but he says he can't make the same kind of money anywhere else which is true but i would rather me and him work so we can both see our kids then him never see us i don't really care about having the extrs money i would rather my kid s grow up with there dad in their life and just to be able to go to sleep and wake up to him in the morning would be great idk maybe im being selfish maybe im being a clingy wife what woukd you do in this situation would you feel the same way ?