I've only been married for a year, but have been living with my husband for many years.  I am sick and tired of doing everything for him.  He was spoilt as a kid and had everything done for him.  If I dare to ask him to help me with the chores he gets annoyed.  If the house is a mess he's annoyed.  If I tidy up he's annoyed because he blames me for things he can't find.  We've had argument after argument about it and he apologises and tidies up for a week then it's back to square one.  If we weren't married I'd walk out the door right now and not come back.